Here's a quick tip for saving money on all the birthday gift madness your kids inflict on you...
(I haven't learned the art of saying "I'm sorry but - insert child name - won't be able to make it, but thanks for the invite".)
This is what a friend of mine does. Her daughter is only ten months old, so she can get away with it, without being hounded by her own child. (Me? I'll have to wait until A & J are BOTH in school full time so they're not shopping with me, and there to wail, whine and wallow in the misery of Mean Mommy Aways Says No.)
Anyway, my thrifty friend has a "gift closet", and any time she sees something on sale, she buys it and hides it in the closet. She never, ever, ever (did I mention ever?) pays full price for kids' gifts.
This is definitely on my to-do list for the future...